Christmas Memories

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My favorite holiday is Christmas! It is first special because it is the birthday of Jesus, who came to be with us and be our savior. Second, Christmas has special memories from my childhood that I cherish.

Christmas was always the big family event of the year, with Christmas Eve as the most exciting part for me. Soon after Thanksgiving, we would go to a tree farm and buy a fresh cut tree, usually eight to ten feet tall to set up near the front window in the living room.
We fussed with the strings of lights because all the bulbs had to be good for the string to light. My sister Jan and I decorated the tree with many colored balls and dangling ornaments, and strands of icicles. We had a special antique angel for the top.

Our gift giving tradition was to “fish” for small inexpensive gifts. Mom said that Grandma started the tradition during the Depression when there wasn’t much money for gifts. All the wrapped gifts were piled on the pool table in the front room, and a sheet tacked up over the door. We tied a string on a “fishing pole” to throw over the sheet. Someone would hook a gift on the string and call for the recipient to come “fish” it out while everyone watched to see what they got. With many small gifts, the giving could be stretched out for the whole evening.

The gifts also became a tradition. I always gave Mom a box of #2 lead pencils and packs of Wrigley’s Spearmint gum — individually wrapped, of course. I tied the pencils in a long string. I always gave my sister Jan a can of cashews, and Daddy a bottle of after shave lotion; usually Old Spice or Bay Rum. Daddy got paperback books, or Zane Grey westerns or Agatha Christi mysteries.

We vied to see who would notice the passing of midnight, and be the first to wish everyone a Merry Christmas. Then we hung our stockings on the mantle over the fireplace and waded through the mounds of wrapping paper to go to bed.
Christmas morning I was up early! I snuck out to once again try to shout “Merry Christmas” before someone else did. First stop was to see what goodies were in my stocking; maybe a candy bar or a small jackknife.

Mom was already up preparing Christmas dinner for the midday. Normal days we ate in the kitchen, but today we ate on the big table in the dining room. Mom usually boiled two of our own chickens, and dropped dumplings on top of them. I loved those dumplings and gravy! The rest was traditional, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, and apple pie or pumpkin pie for dessert.

Either Christmas Eve or the end of Christmas day, or both, Mom would sit down at the old upright piano, and we gathered around to sing Christmas carols.

Sigh. Christmas was over. Now, the long wait until next year. The wonderful memories lingered as we ate leftover chicken and pie.

Do you have special traditions at Christmas, or memories from Christmas past? Please share – we’d love to hear them!

2 thoughts on “Christmas Memories

  1. Sandy

    I remember my mom and dad never put up the Christmas
    Tree till Christmas eve after the younger children had gone to be. Then we would wske yup to a fully decorated tree with a gift for esch of us. One yest my two younger sisters and mysrlf received a life dize doll thst you strapped to your feet snd danced with. It was the best Christmas ever. On the table would be oranges and walnuts for all of us to eat. Mom and Dad didn’t have much but a lot of love made up for the lack of.Money. I wonder what ever happened to those dolls of ours lol. With 16 children we learned to share and love from yhe best parents anyone could ask for. We had a great home made dinner w chicken and dumplins also. And potatoes all from our farm. 🎅🎄💓

  2. jonwite

    I grew up opening presents on Christmas Eve, just as you. Because my first wife’s birthday was on Christmas Eve we eventually decided to change to Christmas morning, a very hard tradition for me to change! 🙂 But, all these years later (more than 40), Christmas morning seems like the right time and I can’t imagine opening presents on Christmas Eve. One of the loved Christmas traditions in my family of 10 kids, when I was a teenager, was the Christmas morning dart gun fight. My Mom would put a plastic dart gun in every ones stocking and we would run all over shooting each other. A wonderful chaotic Christmas morning! We would then have a family breakfast and prepare the house for our relatives to join us for a wonderful turkey Christmas dinner. It was a wonderful time! Wish I could be 16 and do it all again!

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